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Mmmmmmi am in ni fi loop i stay every day at home want to take disicions but never actually takes procastinate things my life becomes like it has no taste right now i always stay at home not in contact with any person out not metting with friedn just staying at home all calmness no one talks i am just locked in head right now i always plan i will do this and that but never actually follows right now i am 18 year old intj in ni fi loop where te gets devloped and i knew this will cause me heavy damage i have no happiness in life life seems dull i do tend to see things on youtube about attitude videos or watches what i like what seems interesting know what i should right now but avoids doing it want to know how i feel aboht myself what i wanted to do what i am doing will i get that what my morals are life seems so messed up right now saying but not doing anything this happens for like 2 years i say i will make decision but never actually takes any just thinking of how my future seems and just see that makes me hally but avoid taking actions just getting afraid everyday how my future will become causes of lack of actions just engaing te heavily some days then got back in this loop doing same lazy routine for 2 years getting angry over me doing what i like playing games just cause i like eating something just cause i like that not getting anything achieved i know my potential but still satyung in this loop sucs watching characters which i like like sasuke uchiha lelouch ayanokoji kiyotaka etc just cuase they make me feel happy toward getting my goal it feels me motivated just getting random information about mbti not so sure on the information that i got just reserching but not getting any conclusions this all buried my halpiness want to feel emotion of mine but seems like not feeling them want to have emotions like normal peoples dont want to be like a stone statue want to move on want to make diffrenece in my life give me advice about this and how can i get out of this situation

Jeha, sure.

My life is a series of existential crises. Have both high-functioning autism and ADHD. I am extremely introverted and prefer my inner world. I recharge in solitude but am not shy or quiet. I hate small talk and struggle with social interactions. I get exhausted from being around people and having to mask. I have struggled with addictions, eating disorders, anxiety and depression. I do not get embarrassed over things that most neurotypical people do, because It does not make sense to me to care about what others think about arbitrary petty things. I am an auditory processor so I think out loud when organizing the big picture after collecting data through extraverted intuition. Then I monologue and info dump. I go into solitude about every six months. I did the opposite of what you described. I explored early in life. I left home as a teenager and did not start settling down until my late 30s. The ADHD I think helped me with this because I was chasing dopamine to an extreme. I also experienced a lot of trauma. I learned a lot but I fried my nervous system. I get panic attacks and overstimulated and burnt myself out from masking. I never learned to regulate myself enough. I was misdiagnosed as a teen. I was not correctly diagnosed with AuDHD until my 50s.

I am a female INTP but I am, AuDHD and expressive.

This is the first time I have ever heard of AMF! And this is a very real thing with new skills! Some which we never really think go through these stages. Sometimes we quit something because of the awkward stage or the mechanical stage before we even get to the fluid stage! This is gold to know for some of us because we think something must be very wrong with me if I can't just be natural at something or why is this taking so long that it seems impractical to even implement something into our life or routine because we may feel that we will operate in the awkward or mechanical stage forever so we don't even start or try it.(Because we may not even be aware of or know these stages exist) I hope you have a video on AMF. I Think just an awareness of this can be life changing for some of us. Sory I know this was not the topic of the video but this is an important concept Thank you for sharing.

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yay glad to see you're back :)!

12:10 we are picking up vibes in the room.

(INTJ) This was helpful. I have one of those cubicle-working INFPs in my martial arts class, clearly unhappy and with underused Ne (causes analysis paralysis, prefers Si) which she only stimulates by watching anime before bed. Guess I'll have to come up with some creative drills and sparring to bring out her aux function 🥊

If you're an ESFJ and you want advice, watch this video by Dr K. He's talking to an ESFJ girl and about her way of coping with situations..and he's just so good seeing through it all ua-cam.com/video/XzsQuH03Y9o/v-deo.html

Hi Alexis, Thank you for making and sharing detailed understanding in a more digestibable formate. Anychance I could get your persective and undering with the most recent video on my channel? Likeminded individuals also...

Won't lie, the critiques from the Se Te perspective always rub me the wrong way. I don't value what you value, you're reasoning of why this is bad doesn't apply to me. Looking shlubby, why would I cow tow to Se, I don't care how it affects me practically, I don't value it and others are wrong to value it so highly when trusting others opinions. When Garrett says almost the same things as Alexis in a diplomatic way without the superimposed valuing of Te Se I'm like yeah I agree, well said.

Missed you ❤ literally one of my favourite things around here!!!

The explaining slowly is tough. I don't think I explain slowly, but I get the feeling sometimes people feels I am. This mostly happens when they think they understand, but don't (situation 2 below). The two situations these tends to happen for me are: 1. I don't understand enough detail about where the other person is and I'm struggling to know what they know and don't. I come across a lot of people who have the opposite problem (and I don't want to have this problem again), they'll assume the other person knows what they know. When they explain with this assumption, there is so little for the other person to grasp they just stare blankly or dishonestly nod. 2. I know more about what they don't understand then they do. They are missing a detail, even though they "know" the right answer. I have to walk through the steps for them to actually understand. This one I see the most annoyance with. If you don't grasp the reasoning, or only kinda grasp the reasoning here, you won't really understand and won't be able to have a good framework. This irony is intentional, I don't totally understand how important it is for others to have this framework. It does seem important even for other types to think logically, even Te types. If you don't want to understand, you should probably be clearer why you're asking, or ask a question that implies what you're really asking better.

Hey.

This is the first planner video that could actually work! Thank you for sharing your content! I'm looking forward to watching more of your videos and trying these techniques! May I ask what is your background? You seem to know how various types of brains work!

very good video - ISTP

Welcome back 🎉

Me before: I don`t understand people, they disturb me! Me getting into MBTI: Wow I can understand, so relieved! Me after watching Alexis` cognetive functions vids: I am SO disturbed about humanity! (INTJ)

God this is so confusing I'm literally both on most these things, my P and J are almost 50% so that could be a reason why but I identify with both or with ISTP more so I think I'm ISTP. My "dream" in life is to live on a farm in the middle of nowhere so that must be ISTP like

Oh, and I Love that you're bringing the emotions, feelings and senses into the system!

It's crazy how looking forward 10 yrs seems so far away, but looking backwards 10yrs seems like yesterday.

This is really exciting! Thank You!

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Is it weird im stuck between isfp and enfp? Im 16 and since a couple years back I've identified with the enfp. I think i couple be either in an isfp loop, or im an infp in denial because im biased and i dont like infps😭

Thank you 🌟

Welcome back 😀!

Thanks for the video and especially explanation in beginning. I never knew that. Small small nitpick. I never wanna hear the phrase ‘ethical non monogamy’ again 😅…we need to stop making everything so PC -_- need a Superbad 2 or something like yesterday

Please if you could make a simple decision making template to put your video tips into practice, it would be of great help.

This really helped! I have been planning, but it wasn’t quite where I wanted to be. So happy I found your channel

I'm a 30-ish year old ENTJ who does yoga most mornings (and a few nights a week). I am about 15 years into my practice, and I have only done it a few times around other people. I end up focusing on being better than those around me, so I don't enjoy it with others. It's for me, not for showing off.

Your content is amazing .....

Since when is past tense “I am” 🤣🤣🤣

Great video. Thanks

I love this.

Yeah I can relate to all those points. Except energy, I`ve always had plenty of that and both short term/peak and long term sustained output. Maybe because I had a Se focused childhood or perhaps v-shaped mesomorphic body type facilitates it. Data points at least indicate a certain linearity between my physical condition and stress therein and my mental (part of the body after all) clarity. Drama and being exposed to malice is still very very draining to me, as I guess it is to many INTJs. Some fun comments I`ve got over the years: "You`d better stop that or you`ll start suffering from over-intelligence!" "You are hard to pull out of your cocoon, but then you play and work more than twice as hard as anyone else around" "What the hell are you up to these days, achieving escape velocity from reality? We are WORRIED!" "How is it you transform from a measured and mindful person at the base to this crazed field maniac when on maneuver?"

love it!!!

She's baaaaack! Love this, thank you!

Yay! You’re back! 👏🏻👏🏻🎉🎉🎉

I said this one before but I'm going to say this again I wish i can have a friend like you! 😄

God thank you for creating alexis 🤲💚 divine timing 🎉

I'm a 27 year old INFJ. I was always regarded as 'special'. Yet I was always conflicted by my contradictory personalities to the point I suspected for a long time that I have some sort of personality disorder like bipolar/sociopathy/psychopathy/covert narcissism. It was great just recently to learn about INFJ. I've watched many amazing videos about INFJ but this is certainly next level. Thank you!

I love INFP too. But they are not more moral than everyone else. They are complexly more concerned about their own goodness and right to exist. This inner struggle gets projected out as trying to heal the world, when in fact it is themselves they are trying to fix, and to heal, from their early childhood acquired misguided shame.

ENFJ guy…. My childhood friends mean a lot to me and I’ve made sure I’ve kept in touch with all of them. I’ve worked the hardest to keep us childhood mutual friends together. I tend to be the friend a person in distress will communicate with. I don’t criticize or belittle their concerns where others will. I listen but occasionally will try to give advice. I have this overwhelming feeling I need to help FIX the problem but learned to stay out of it. I try not to talk about myself. I will occasionally bring g up similar things that happened to me and let them know what I did and what the outcome was. I love hosting parties at my house. I try to make a fun atmosphere for my guests. I’m not well understood at work. I’m a scientist and I work with mainly ISTJs. I feel them as being cold, non-empathetic, and annoyed easily. It’s like oil and water with me but fortunately my boss is an ENFJs as well. That helps. However, it tends to make some of my coworkers jealous and somewhat paranoid. I’ve been friends with very toxic people because they have no one else. These people are definite energy vampires. I promise too much and get overwhelmed. I do what I can to keep my promises but I think it causes me to produce a lower quality product or my time with them feel lower quality time, at times and I feel guilty. My wife is an INFP and we’re paired perfectly. We don’t fight. Our arguments are short and we always come to a compromise. We promised each other we’d never go to bed mad at each other. All disagreements are resolved before bed. We’ve kept that promise for 33 years of marriage therefore there’s no resentment. Our family life is easy going and stress free. We produced 2 laid back, well-behaved kids. (Now Adults). My negatives… Worry Empath (positive and negative) Procrastinate Late a lot but feel guilty if I make people wait Sucker…. Impulse shopping

Welcome back

Sister thankyou for this insight😊🤍

Ima just go w the flow what happens happens

Can you make a video about time management for P types? Especially enfp’s? 😅

So excited to see you! 💫

Yeh!! Alexis is back 🎉